Reading Women's Body Language

It’s no secret that most guys who fail at picking up girls anywhere have never learned the best ways of reading women’s body language. They spend their nights memorizing pick up lines and dating routines just to find something that actually works. If you’re in the same pickle, I have news for you : it’s not the routine, it’s how well you can build on her reaction to your words.

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Most women cannot hide their reactions to men even if they try to. Look around you when you’re in a party, and play the role of a bystander for a change. If you look closely enough, you will notice how women scoot away from guys who come on too strong or too creepy. At the same time, you will also notice how women give out flirting signals to men they like.

Reading women’s body language means looking out for the following signs :

1. Hair patting - When a woman talks to someone she’s attracted to, she feels self-conscious. She touches her hair because she wants to check if her hair-do is still in place. She’s also aware that her hair could be covering her face, and she checks for stray locks.

2. Her posture – When she notices you, she sits up straight and covertly looks at you from the corner of her eye. You will also notice how she throws her hair back and how she crosses her legs in a way that her toes point in your direction. These are all signs of attraction, and all you have to do is to approach.

3. Both eyebrows raised – A woman’s eyebrows reflect her feelings well. If she’s into you, you’ll notice both her eyebrows are raised when she looks in your direction. If she’s arching one of her brows, she could be checking you out but the attraction isn’t there yet.

The key to being successful with women is to know what signs they give out when they want men to approach them. These are non-verbal invitations you shouldn’t miss. If you’re too dense, a girl who’s checking you out will look away for good. She will simply assume you’re not interested.