How to Flirt Effectively ?

Every man wants to know how to flirt effectively, but learning is just the tip of the iceberg. You can learn all the moves and the right words, but you have to start with your mindset.

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==> First, you have to be perfectly fine with your brand of humor.
==> Secondly, you should be able to see yourself as a guy with value.

These concepts of self acceptance and self value will make all the tips you receive on how to flirt effectively work to your favor.

Let’s discuss how each of these mindset factors will make you a Flirt Master.

1. Humor for Flirting

If you really want to know how to flirt effectively, your sense of humor must be intact. Once you start talking to women, they will dish out jokes that could be offensive if taken the wrong way. Some women love making men feel uncomfortable by talking about beer bellies, receding hairline or height. If you show signs of getting pissed, they will continue on mercilessly until you walk off in shame.

See humor in the situation, and revel in the fact that they’re actually flirting with you. When you laugh along with them, you have the freedom to pinch some cheeks or poke some sexy ribs inside the group. You can even pretend to be so pissed that you’re storming off and taking a souvenir with you (you can put your arms around a girl in the group). This is easy banter that you can enjoy if you just let yourself go.

2. You’re the prize, not her.

If you just let yourself feel that you have enough value for women to fight over, your flirting game will change. Sometimes, it’s easier to just sit back and let the women do the flirting. Once you open the conversation channels, you invite women to flirt with you. Be more intuitive to flirting, especially with touchy feely girls, and you might just realize how these girls are trying to grab your attention.