Flirting tips for the SHY..

Being shy in the ‘dating game’ can be frustrating to many guys. Whereas a lot of people are comfortable in bars & clubs, you’re one of those people who probably feel awkward talking to someone in a loud environment.

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The good news is there are a few ways you can meet women EVEN if you’re the shyest guy in the world. In this article, I’m going to reveal THREE quick tips for flirting that’ll help you meet more women :

#1- Have a System

One of the best flirting tips I can give you is to create a system that works for you. The truth is there’s a bit of science to meeting and attracting women. My first piece of advice is to create a ‘cheat sheet’ that you’ll use to meet women. This can include conversation starters, topics to discuss and basic flirting techniques. You’ll find that certain things will work with every woman you meet. So when you field test something, you can add it to this list.

#2- Know Where to Go

As I mentioned in the introduction, bars and clubs are not a great place for shy guys to flirt and meet women. What I recommend is you structure your dating life around NATURALLY meeting women. This means expanding upon your social circle and simply being proactive about living your life. You’ll find that doing the things that you love can be an incredible way to meet girls.

#3- Understand Sexual Tension

The secret ingredient to flirting is to know how to create sexual tension. This is basically structuring a conversation in a manner where you’re playing around and bantering with a girl. What most guys don’t know is women are attracted to guys who can “assume familiarity” and be playful. With sexual tension, you skip the awkward, boring conversation that most guys attempt when they’re first meet a girl.

Overcoming shyness around woman can be easily achieved when you have a game plan and know how to act. So if you follow these 3 flirting tips for shy men, you’ll be able to quickly increase your success with women.